Larry Magid: What you need to know about Instagram’s friend map

Instagram in recent times introduced a new feature called Instagram Map designed to let you share your last progressing location with friends Although it s meant to help users feel more connected the rollout has sparked confusion and privacy concerns Here s a breakdown of what s really going on Related Articles Musk s AI chatbot is suddenly posting antisemitic tropes How to stop Walnut Creek Chamber of Commerce partner from cyber tracking you Opt-in not default Contrary to specific reports Instagram Map is off by default You must choose to enable it When you do you can decide whether to share your location with friends people you follow back close friends selected friends or no one However if you tag a location in a story post or reel that tag will also appear on the map for hours for the people you shared it with This happens regardless of whether you ve enabled location sharing because it s based on the tag you chose to add to your content Still the overlap between tags and sharing has led to specific confusion Screen comes on app when you first share location Privacy and safety controls Instagram has included several safeguards You can hide sensitive locations like home school or work You can control who if anyone sees your location Parents with supervision controls can see who their teen is sharing location with turn off their teen s location sharing and are notified if their teen starts sharing their location You can switch location sharing off at any time Instagram doesn t track your exact location in the background all the time only when you reopen the app And when you click on the map icon Instagram displays whether you are sharing your location Instagram map will tell you if you are or are not sharing location Being able to locate friends and family has clear benefits such as making it easier to meet up in person which can feel more meaningful than completely interacting online It can also be reassuring to know where loved ones are especially for parents and helpers Plenty of parents encourage or even require their children or teens to share their location and in certain families all members share with each other as a way to stay connected and provide peace of mind However Instagram isn t usually the best tool for families who want to share locations Google Maps and Apple Find My are specifically designed to locate people regardless of whether their app is on so long as they re sharing location and their phone is connected But with any location sharing app or feature there are risks that need to be managed Specific cautionary notes Again if you re an Instagram user be aware that if you tag your location in a story or post it will also show up on the map for your followers If you don t want people to know where you are don t tag your location And if you use any location sharing utility remember that relationships can evolve and someone who was once a close friend could later become an ex-friend or even a stalker misusing location access in harmful strategies Regardless of what tool you use to share your location make sure you trust that person to know where you are and review it periodically in occurrence the relationship changes or you just no longer want to share your location It s your choice Location sharing can help you be more connected but it s far from a necessary thing to do with bulk friends It s usually fine for very close friends and family but I see no reason to use Instagram or any other app to share your location with casual friends unless you want to be able to run into them at various locations that you might both frequent If you re sharing on Instagram s Friend Map I recommend that you pick contacts from the Only these friends option or select Close Friends and that you hide sensitive locations such as your home address Either way review those relationships from time to time to make sure you want to continue to share I highly recommend that parents talk with their children and teens about location sharing not just on Instagram but any other apps they might use You can learn more about staying safe on Instagram at ConnectSafely s Parent s Guide to Instagram Other apps share location There is nothing new about location sharing It s an option in Google s Gmail and in iOS Find My app Both enable you to share your location either permanently or for a specified amount of time Several years ago a friend and I used Apple s Find My to share our locations with each other and we re still connected Fortunately he and I are friends As far as I can tell I haven t received any notifications from Apple to remind me about the sharing Google does periodically send a reminder about people I m sharing with Google does occasionally remind you by email if you are sharing your location Snap has long offered a feature called Snap Map that lets you share your location with selected friends and family and see where your friends are when they choose to share Your location only updates when you open the app disappears after eight hours of inactivity and can be hidden anytime using Ghost Mode or custom sharing settings For more see ConnectSafely s Quick Guide to Snapchat Location Sharing And here s a little-known fact Back in a -year-old Stanford dropout named Sam Altman reached out to my nonprofit ConnectSafely for advice on how to make his new location-sharing startup Loopt as safe as viable Loopt was a very early location sharing tool two years before the iPhone was launched If Altman s name sounds familiar that s because he sold Loopt in for million and went on to co-found OpenAI the organization behind ChatGPT Related Articles Hertz wants another after my insurance paid is that legal San Mateo County proposes State of California owes it and its cities million after raid Help eBay suspended me after my first purchase and kept my Santa Clara says Super Bowl LX will cost million San Jose continues crack down on negligent property owners upping fines to Disclosure Larry Magid is CEO of ConnectSafely a non-profit internet safety origination that receives financial promotion from Meta which owns Instagram