Dear Abby: While I was recuperating, my husband moved out of our house

DEAR ABBY I became ill a inadequate months ago and spent days in the hospital before moving to a rehab center to recover My husband worked at the facility where I became a recipient Related Articles Dear Abby After the split my son-in-law sent me this email Dear Abby I was accused on intruding on my friend s vacation Dear Abby My genius daughter won t get a job and it s wrecking her marriage Dear Abby My gaslighting husband stated the police came to our house because of what I did Dear Abby I feel crazy for even thinking what I m thinking about my husband and my brother Two weeks into my rehab he broadcasted that when I went home he would not be there and that he was filing for divorce He refused to give me a solid reason why Our -plus-year marriage has had challenging times Each time we went for counseling he was uncooperative going so far as lying I learned he had been having an affair his third with a woman who would visit the facility to see a relative He has now moved in with her and the divorce process continues I am in my s and constantly tried to be the wife he requested I am broken and cannot seem to move on He was the love of my life and I am crushed by the way he did this I still cannot get him to admit he s having an affair I often wonder if he lies to her the way he lied to me In the past he lusted after women I believe he has taken his emotional problems with him in this new relationship How can I let go and move on STUNNED IN SOUTH DAKOTA DEAR STUNNED If you are truly wondering whether your almost-ex-husband is lying to the woman he is now living with you can make book on it Liars lie because it is convenient He will maybe eventually cheat on her as he did with you Like it or not life has offered you the opportunity to move forward Please take advantage of it and talk with your attorney about what your rights are as a wife of more than years in South Dakota DEAR ABBY I m the mother of two teenage sons My younger son Richie is and a great kid He has a grade-point average in high school studies hard and is never out roaming He has scholarships waiting for the taking When I come home late at night he s already asleep What bothers me is that I know nothing about his life Richie mentioned that he s going to his junior prom and I have no idea who the girl is he is taking I don t know his friends although I do know a large number of of the moms of the friends he s acquainted with As a single parent I work several jobs I m exhausted and basically have no life I don t want my son to feel I would judge him if he gave me more information about what he does with the little free time he has but I feel left out I remember when I was and didn t want my parents to know my business so I m reluctant to ask him a bunch of questions I have never searched his room because I respect his privacy I invariably promised my kids that they would have their privacy and freedom as long as their grades were great and they have given me no reason to question their lifestyles What should I do LEFT-OUT MOM Related Articles Asking Eric Should I warn her she s at hazard of being banned from the supermarket Dear Abby After the split my son-in-law sent me this email Asking Eric My co-workers are blackmailing the boss and it s a mess for all of us Harriette Cole I keep replaying this distressing moment from my wedding Miss Manners Should I liability insulting my neighbor by being blunt about her dog DEAR MOM You and your son are living on different schedules From what you have written I don t have the impression that he is being secretive Find a time when you are both awake and start having various short conversations with him so it won t seem like he is being grilled Because of your work schedule you have become like ships passing in the night but there is still time to change program Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren also known as Jeanne Phillips and was founded by her mother Pauline Phillips Contact Dear Abby at www DearAbby com or P O Box Los Angeles CA